Level 4: Remorse & Apologies
I apologize . . .
I feel embarrassed . . .
I am sorry . . .
I feel ashamed . . .
I am willing . . .
Level 5: Love, Understanding, Gratitude & Forgiveness
I love . . .
I appreciate . . .
I realize . . .
I forgive . . .
Thank you . . .
I would like . . .
I trust . . .
RESPONSE LETTER
The response letter does not need to be long, but it can be if you choose. It should
include:
1)
Apologies expressed in a way that makes you feel heard and supported.
2)
Understanding and validating statements that express a warmth and compassion
for your feelings.
3)
Loving statements that praise, agree, appreciate, and acknowledge what you
deserve, and
4)
Whatever else you need to hear to feel good.