MY TOTAL SCORE: 30
MY FRIENDS TOTAL SCORE: 22
Now subtract your friend's score from yours. This may be a negative number: I
Between +8 and -8: You have a balanced relationship with this person, and that's the starting place for all really beautiful
friendships. lf the relationship is relatively new, pay attention to maintaining the balance that allows you and your friend to both care
for and be cared for by each other. lf the relationship is a long-standing one, thank Zeus and give yourself a libation. Few things in
life are as precious as a balanced friendship, and you've got one.
MY TOTAL SGORE: 34
MY FRIENDS TOTAL SCORE: 7
Now subtract your friend's score from yours. This may be a negative number: 27
Between +40 and +25: Hello-o-o-ol You are an echo-o-o-ol Seriously, in this relationship, you're doing way too much of the work
and allowing yourself to be devalued. At some level, you know this. lf you begin standing up for yourself, expecting fair treatment
and reciprocity, you may lose the relationship. But if you don't, you'll lose your soul. Time to step up.