Your Free Cheat Sheet - Better Dating Blueprint

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YOUR FREE CHEAT SHEET
BETTER DATING BLUEPRINT
1. APPROACH
- Using approach psychology so that the chance of
being rejected is minimised and the chances of continued
interaction is increased. Understanding how the unconscious works
so that interaction is far more likely. This is working with your
personality, regardless of being extroverted or introverted and
regardless of your gender. This allows women more choice when it
comes to approaching. (1-2 mins)
2. FILTER
- This is sorting people into three areas; 65% of people
you will meet are a mismatch for you and you can just move on,
saving you both substantial time, 30% are a reasonable match and
people with whom you can be friends, wing men or women or just
fun for the moment and 5% of people are a good match and with
whom you could potentially have a quality relationship. This is
designed to quickly narrow down our potentials through carefully
scripted questions and stories. (10-15 minutes)
3. CONNECT
- Using body language, firting signals, body zones,
basic psychology and kino, to build sexual tension to quickly create
attraction, and also avoid the friend zone. This is understanding the
stages of attraction so that the situation is in your control, rather
than a haphazard approach of crossing fngers and hoping for the
best. (10- 15 minutes)
4. TEST
– Once we have discovered if the person fts into our 5%,
we can dig in further with more detailed questions and stories to
discover their beliefs, goals, attitudes, skills and abilities. This
increases the strength of the future relationship. This is also where
the parameters and boundaries of a potential future relationship
can be laid which minimises future confict and obstacles. (10-15
minutes)
5. ESCALATE/RE-SCHEDULE
– At this point in the interaction,
you have a choice of two options. You can accelerate the scenario
into a dating situation at a later date or continuing to build the
sexual tension, all the while keeping you in control of the situation.
This ensures that safety is paramount and you keep the focus on a
more high quality relationship down the track. (5 minutes to
whatever you choose)

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