(“I read that as a homosexual relationship…I know a lot of states only will accept civil unions or domestic
partnerships. Or it could be people who just choose not to get married…they just live the same way, just
in a partnership.”)
The people who properly understood the term described it in different terms. One facet of the
description was the process of attaining the status: these respondents reported things like having a
ceremony (for civil unions); filling out forms or doing paperwork (this was denoted by the “registered”
term in the category). Another facet was the effects of having the status. Examples of this included:
whether to keep a person on life support in case of an accident, whether the person wants to be buried
or cremated; “you’re on the books, so if someone is in the hospital you have the right to see them;”
taxes and hospital care and other legal rights that couples acquire that total strangers could not. Several
respondents mentioned tax benefits as a benefit of having domestic partnership status. None
mentioned health insurance benefits at this point, although all of the opposite‐sex domestic partners
had previously mentioned this as the primary reason they applied for registered domestic partnership
status.
Several respondents reported that the availability of domestic partnership status varied across states.
Some reported that domestic partnership status applied to both same‐sex and opposite‐sex couples.
However, there was some difference of opinion on this topic, with a few respondents stating that
domestic partnership was available for same‐sex couples only. To some extent this may be a reflection
of where the interviews were conducted, although at least one straight respondent in North Carolina,
where it is not available at all, said that it was available for both same‐ and opposite‐sex couples.
Respondents were asked whether they had a preference for one version of the marital status questions
over the other, and if so, what the preference was. Only a few respondents did not express a
preference. And the version with the embedded response category was the overwhelming favorite of
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