Marriage Preparation Work Book Ii - Love Map Questionnaire Template Page 2
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I feel that my partner knows me pretty well.
T or F
20.
My partner is familiar with my hopes and aspirations.
T or F
(2) Scoring: Give yourself one point for each “true” answer. 10 & above consider this a strength. 10 and
below consider it a weakness. Either you do not have a love map or it needs to be updated.
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Gottman, John and Nan Silver: The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide
From the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert (New York: Three Rivers Press, 1999).
Love Map 20 Question Game
Play this game together in the spirit of laughter and gentle fun. The more you play, the more you’ll
(1)
learn about the love maps concept and how to apply it to your own relationship.
(2)
Each of you should take a piece of paper and pen. Together, randomly decide on twenty numbers
between 1 and 60. Write the numbers down in a column on the left-hand side of your paper.
(3)
Below is a list of numbered questions. Beginning with the top of your column, match the numbers
you chose with the corresponding questions. Each of you should ask your partner this question. If
your partner answers correctly (you be the judge), he or she receives the number of points indicated
for that question, and you receive one point. If your partner answers incorrectly, neither of you
receive any points. The same rules apply when you answer. The winner is the person with the higher
score after you’ve both answered all twenty questions.
1.
Name my two closes friends. (2)
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What is my favorite musical group, composer, or instrument? (2)
3.
What was I wearing when we first met? (2)
4.
Name one of my hobbies. (3)
5.
Where was I born? (1)
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What stresses am I facing right now? (4)
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Describe in detail what I did today, or yesterday. (4)
8.
When is my birthday? (1)
9.
What is the date of our anniversary (or engagement)? (1)
10.
Who is my favorite relative? (2)
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What is my fondest unrealized dream? (5)
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What is my favorite flower? (2)
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What is one of my greatest fears or disaster scenarios? (3)
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What is my favorite time of day? (3)
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What makes me feel most complete? (4)
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What turns me on? (3)
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What is my favorite meal? (2)
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What is my favorite was to spend the evening? (2)
19.
What is my favorite color? (1)
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What personal improvements do I want to make in my life? (4)
21.
What kind of present would I like best? (2)
22.
What was one of my best childhood experiences? (2)
23.
What was my favorite vacation? (2)
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